Meltdown

Navigating Teenage Turbulence: Helping Your ASD Son Through a Meltdown

Hello, wonderful mothers of the Aspie Whisperer community! Today, we’re diving into the turbulent waters of teenage meltdowns, offering tips and strategies to help your ASD son navigate these challenging moments with grace and humour.

Understanding Meltdowns

Meltdowns are often a result of sensory overload, changes in routine, or difficulty expressing emotions. Understanding the triggers can help you better anticipate and manage meltdowns.

Creating a Calming Environment

Create a calming environment at home where your son can retreat when feeling overwhelmed. This could include a quiet space with dim lighting and sensory-friendly items.

Establishing Clear Communication

Encourage your son to communicate his feelings and needs, and validate his emotions. Use simple language and visual aids to help him understand and express himself.

Teaching Coping Strategies

Teach your son coping strategies to help him manage his emotions and prevent meltdowns. This could include deep breathing exercises, taking breaks, or engaging in sensory activities.

Maintaining Consistency

Maintain a consistent daily routine to provide stability and predictability for your son. Changes in routine can be challenging, so try to prepare him in advance for any disruptions.

Seeking Professional Support

If meltdowns are frequent or severe, consider seeking support from a healthcare provider or therapist who specializes in ASD. They can provide additional strategies and support tailored to your son’s needs.

Staying Calm and Patient

During a meltdown, it’s important to stay calm and patient. Remember that your son is not trying to be difficult – he’s struggling to cope with overwhelming emotions.


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